Thursday, March 22, 2012

Our life!


Im heather and most of u will know that if u know me already! Well back in 2004 mine serion year in high school i ment Oscar the love of my life! We had our ups and down in the being and we got past all that! we moved in and got out 1st appt together and it was the really bad haha! but it was ours and we made it what we could! in 2007 oscar was told about this school in Billings Mt and was talking to the football couchs out here well they wanted him for long snapping! so oscar and i moved from Eureka Cali. we moved here june 13th and oscar started meeting ppl around here at the school he was going to (ROCKY MT college) in that time oscar was gone alot doing school and working at pizza hut yes i said it at that point we didnt have great jobs i work at ablertson waiting to get day care job. hey they were jobs right! so in nov i got a phone call saying that my dad had past away i left oscar here while he was doing school to go to my dad furnal. i came home and got back to work . I got a phone call from my mom friend telling me my mom was really sick and not doing well(most u know she was battleing breast cancer since my serion year in high school) we was planning to go home for crhistmas so i went to the airport and told them everything that was going on and the change my ticket to go there sooner so i could spend time with my mom. i flew out dec 10 2007 well oscar took me to the air port! and little did i know that he was going to ask me to marrie him! in the air port if any of u know oscar he kind shy so him doing this through me for a loop! i called my mom and told her oscar ask me to marrie him and she didnt belive me i was like mom i have the ring u will see it wen i come i cant wait to show u. on dec 11 me and my moms friend too my mom to swim with the dolpin which she didnt know she was going to and we had a blast little did i know it would be one of the last times i got to do anything like that with her. well oscar came back to cali with us and we hong out ! my mom was happy to see him and so was i cause i was away from him for two week. Christmas came and went . on dec 26th my mom wasnt doing that great she had a serizer and was rushed to the hosptail .hosptie came and made her as coffy as they could they brought a bed the next day dec 27 well my mom was in a coma state that whole day i couldnt belive this was happening to me. i just member everything me and my mom talked about that week early she was telling me i was going to have a baby and i told her she was crazy we werent planning that anytime soon. little did i know she new what was happening! my mom passed away dec 27th 2007 . if it wasnt for oscar i wouldnt not have been able to get through this my mom was my best friend and there not a day that i dont think about her. the last pic i have with me and my mom! christmas day now lets get to the happy stuff!
After everything with my mom pasting we came home we our wedding date set! which was July 19th 2008 well on Jan 12 2008 we found out that we were also going to have a baby yes my mom was right she new i was going to have a baby. so i had 6 months to plan my wedding and 9 months to have a baby! wow that was alot to take on right u think it would be but it keept me going every day that for sure. well i couldnt wait to find out what we were having ! so when we hit 20 weeks i couldnt wait to find out if we were going to have a lil girl or a lil boy! well we found out that we were having a lil boy! i couldnt wait to meet him he was due (9/7/08) and i couldnt wait to meet our lil man! Yes we had a hard time coming up with a name but we did and his name is Barrett Glen! Well oscar and I kept our wedding date July 19th 08 well i was 8 months prego with barrett at our wedding but we were so happy and i couldnt wait to marrie him! so here out wedding pic! I loved marring him and wouldnt change it for anything! I think it was the best day our lifes! we had a few more month before our son would be here and we had alot to do to get ready being 1st time mom n dad and all! Oscar was playing football and i was scared he wouldnt make it for when out son would come into our lifes well we found out the weekend that football started that he was not able to play becuase the school messed up on his stuff in order to play so yea this ment he wasnt travleing which ment he wouldnt miss out 1st child be born! His grandma came out for the deliver of the baby cause we thought that oscar would be travling alot of football and i didnt want to be alone in case i did go in to labor but thing got change when he didnt have to play anymore! there was a football game the weekend i was due to have barrett and it was a home game ! so we went and i was big and prego and ready to have this baby well the next day barrett thought it was time to come in to this world! 9/7/08 i had a 3 hour labor and pushed for 20 mins and he was here i couldnt belive it! he was here and i was in love ! Barrett is now 3.5 year old and active that for sure he does not stop! hes was the joy of my life and he came out looking like my mom ! and i new that she was happy to have her 1st grandson! i know oscar was happy to be a daddy but we had alot to over come with having a new baby n him playing football and going to school fultime we did have a hard time for a while but we over came it. we were just newly wedds that had a baby two months later everything moved really fast but we had to keep moving with it. I wont lie it was hard being out here with our any family to help us but we had this health lil man that we had to take care of! so we pull through all our problems just to make it throught it. well oscar and i kept going with barrett and we wanted to add to our family ! so we were trying before barrett truned two and we didnt think we were going to get pregant cause here it was 5 months and we were about to give up and i found out at the end of augs we were going to have another baby! but it was so faint that i wasnt sure so i found out on barrett 2nd birthday that yup we were having another baby! barrett didnt understand really that he was going to be a big brother then he saw my mom tummy growing! Well corbin came on may 6th 2011 only a hour delivery yes a hour and 4 pushes later Corbin Joseph was here! and we were a happy family of 4! also i should add that weekend Corbin came was oscar Graduation weekend migh i said Oscar was there by him self which i felt bad about he went to his Graduation with the hospital band on his rist knowing he just had his 2nd baby boy! I love both my boys and cant wait to watch them grow together and be best friends!Barrett is now in preschool and learning so much and corbin is walking at 10 months old and i have only 2 months to plan his 1st birthday!
and i cant wait and then i have barrett birthday will 4 months later time is going by so fast. Well in Nov 2011 we bought our 1st home and we are now home owners! i cant belive it . we started out being just use to have 2 lil boys and owning our own house in a few years time is going by so fast but we are happy in our life and wouldnt change anything this is the story of our lil family that we love so much and cant wait to add maybe one more kid to it one day! (we hope wen we do that its a girl) right now we are happy with the two boys barrett will start K sooner then we will know what to do! here are my boys now! this is barrett now at 3.5 year old! and corbin 10 months old!